Embracing Ease in 2026: A Soft and Luxxe Lifestyle
- Jan 18
- 3 min read
Hello FRIENDS!!!! Happy 2026š„I feel so well rested and ready for the year!! I hope the time with your family and friends was beautiful and just what you neededš Now, it is time to get started!
Ease Is My Word for 2026
This year, Iām choosing EASEš»
I know life will still require effort, and Iām not avoiding responsibility. I trust God enough to stop gripping everything so tightly. I have released control, and it feels good and intentional.
It actually feels like a deep breath I didnāt realize Iād been holding.
For a long time, I believed that if something mattered, it had to be hard. That progress required pressure. That success came wrapped in exhaustion. And while discipline and dedication still matters to me, Iāve learned something important: Struggle is NOT the price of alignment.
All things happen in the right timing, with the right people, and with the right energy.
I actually made a very intentional decision to honor this word before the year even began. My annual end of the year time does what I need it to do every single time!! God, I Thank You for making me able!!
As I have stated multiple times my friends, rest equals success too. What God has for you doesnāt disappear because you pause. It doesnāt pass you by because you choose rest, reflection, and gratefulness. If anything, rest positions you to receive more, clearly.
If you are busy busy bee...it will take time to allow yourself to rest. Give yourself some grace, and keep at it. YOU DESERVE TIME JUST FOR YOU!!
A few days ago, I caught myself overthinking and right in the middle of it, I stopped. I literally said to myself, wait⦠your word is ease.Ā That was my cue to release control and surrender the moment. God has me. He keeps confirming that I donāt have to worry.
I donāt have to worry about who loves me, because there are people in my life who donāt just tell me, they show me. I donāt have to worry about my bills, because I do my part. Iām cared for, provided for, and protected.
And in that moment, I realized how much peace comes when I stop rehearsing fear and start trusting whatās already being handled.
Thereās a softness to this season that feels intentional. A calm confidence. A sense that I donāt need to prove anything, only steward whatās already in my hands with care.
If youāre stepping into this year feeling tired, hopeful, curious, or even unsure, let this be your permission slip to choose ease too. To stop forcing. To stop rushing. To let go of the idea that everything good must come through stress.
The most powerful move you can make is SURRENDER.
And I believe, deeply, that what God has planned unfolds best when we stop wanting to be in control of everything and start trusting Himš»

Closing Prayer
God, I Thank You for 2025, all of it. All of the answered prayers. The moments of clarity and the seasons of confusion. The growth I recognized immediately and the growth I only see now in hindsight. Thank You for carrying me through every high and every low, for protecting me in ways Iāll never fully know, and for being faithful even when I struggled to fully trust the process. As I step into 2026, I donāt ask for perfection, I ask for alignment. Give me the kind of faith that may start out scary, but grows stronger with every step of obedience. Give me the courage to release what Iāve outgrown so I can receive what Youāre preparing. Do the kind of self-becoming work in me that transforms from the inside out, not just what looks good, but what lasts. Help me stand firm in who I am, anchored in character, not circumstance. Teach me to listen the first time You speak, even when obedience stretches me. Father, remind me that ease doesnāt mean absence of effort, it means walking step by step with You instead of ahead of You. I trust You with my timing, my plans, my provision, and my becoming. I thank You in advance for whatās unfolding, gently, intentionally, and with purpose. In Your Mighty and Powerful Name, I pray!!
Amen.
I am wishing you all a Soft & Luxxe 2026Ā āØ
Reflection Question for a Soft and Luxxe 2026
What would change in your life if you truly believed that rest is part of the success plan?
Share in the comments what your word for 2026 isāØ
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Until next time...Be good to yourselfš






Thank you for such a beautiful and timely reminder! Choosing 'ease' is such a powerful shift. Itās so easy to get caught up in the 'hustle culture' mindset, but youāre absolutely right; rest is truly part of the success plan. Wishing you a wonderful, soft, and luxxe 2026!
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This was such a grounding read. āStruggle is not the price of alignmentā really stayed with me. Thank you for sharing this reminder. š©·š
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This right here: āI believed that if something mattered, it had to be hardā. Iām sooo glad you recognized this is being a detriment to your self-care, well-being, progress, and success ultimately. There are so many things that need to be unlearned. Iām so proud of you. Keep going!!! I love you! š¤š½ššš«¶š¼