Luxxe Notes

Hello FRIENDS!!!! Happy 2026🥂I feel so well rested and ready for the year!! I hope the time with your family and friends was beautiful and just what you needed💖 Now, it is time to get started! Ease Is My Word for 2026 This year, I’m choosing EASE 🌻 I know life will still require effort, and I’m not avoiding responsibility. I trust God enough to stop gripping everything so tightly. I have released control, and it feels good and intentional. It actually feels like a deep bre

Let’s talk about something that most of us struggle with… closed doors. Not the small ones. I’m talking about the big ones. The job you didn’t get. The relationship that ended. The friendship you thought would last forever. Those doors can feel heavy when they close. Sometimes they close quietly. Sometimes they slam shut so loudly that you feel the echo for years. If we’re being honest, most times we take it personally. We wonder what we did wrong. We replay conversations in

Let’s have a real check-in... You know how every year we start January on fire? New goals. New routines. New energy. New promises to ourselves. And then…February hits. Life happens. Motivation dips. Schedules get busy. And slowly, quietly, we start letting things slide. Not over here...Not this year!! We are still in the first quarter and it's way too early to quit on yourself. I’m proud to say…I’m still locked in💪🏽✨ Officially a Gym Gurl💁🏽‍♀️ I'm officially a gym girl,

Hi, there! Let me jump right in, for myself, in this season, I’m learning that preparing for God’s blessings requires more than faith! It requires healing, discipline, and intention. We pray for abundance. We pray for peace. We pray for elevation. We pray for overflow. We pray for “more.” But nobody really talks about what comes with  the prayers being answered. 😅 When God says “Yes,” and suddenly you’re managing more responsibility, more visibility, more decisions, more gro

First, THANK YOU!!! This has been such a transformative year, and your support means more than I can express!! Thank you for sharing my brand and speaking positivity over me, especially when I am not even in the room. I love all of you💖 Now let me get into this post...There are a lot of opinions out there about the New Year. Some people treat January 1st like any other day, same routine, same mindset, same habits. Honestly, if that works for them, I love that. But for me? Th

Hi there, LOVIES🌻 Before we get into this week’s post, I want to follow up on something powerful. In a previous blog, “Dear God, About 2026…” , I wrote about writing a letter to God, about the year ahead. Not only did I finish writing it...I prayed over it, and I actually mailed it. I set my intentions, surrendered the details, and sent it off with full expectation that 2026 will unfold beautifully. And yes…I made a copy. Some years from now, I want to look back and see exac

Hi, there💖...I'm shifting gears a little with this week’s post, in the best way. I’ve been praying, thinking, some more thinking (LOL), and really sitting with what direction I want this blog to take. Then I realized: Why choose one direction when my life is made up of so many? So from here on out, I'll be talking about ALL of the things that make up my SoftLuxxe Lifestyle: God first...luxury that doesn’t require a special occasion, self-care that actually feels good, doing

As this year comes to a close, I want to invite you to slow down and do something sacred, write a letter to God for 2026. I love journaling, creating vision boards (I hang mine at the back door so I see it every time I leave and when I come home). I love doing these things to close out the year, and prepare for the next. This year I will be writing a letter to God. I will pour everything into my letter, not just asking Him for "things", but expressing how grateful I am for wh

There are certain seasons in life that make you pause, not out of exhaustion, but out of gratitude . This post is for that girl I used to be...the one who didn’t know how everything would work out but kept going anyway. I became a mother at 17 years old. By 19 years old, I had two little boys depending on me. At 28 years old, I welcomed my beautiful baby girl into the world. I have always provided for my children alone. There were no breaks, no shortcuts, no safety nets, just

Welcome to fourth quarter!!! This is my absolute favorite time of the year. There’s something about the end of the year that feels like a...

Confession time: How many of us have a “had-to-have-it” stash? You know, that dress, that wig, that pair of heels sitting in your closet with the tags still on, waiting for a “special occasion”? (Don’t worry, I’m side-eyeing myself too.) I’m there...right now...lol. We sacrifice, we hustle, we work long hours to create and maintain a certain lifestyle. Then we sometimes impulse-buy something fabulous and…let it sit. For months. Maybe years. The truth is, we’re already living

A Soft Start Back to School Back-to-school season is more than fresh pencils, new shoes, and color-coded schedules. It’s about setting...

This past vacation, I call them Grannycations, was nothing short of a BIG blessing. My family and I created memories that money could...

You know those evenings you really  look forward to? The ones where you clear your calendar, light a candle, and decide, “Yep, I’m making...

✨ Living in the Slow Lane & Expecting Good Things This season of my life? It’s about peace. It’s about trusting God completely, pivoting...

Listen love, before we get into this post, I need you to hear me on this. In order to truly live a soft, ease-filled, joy-centered life,...

1️⃣ Get To Your Soft Space It starts with a decision. Not a grand gesture, just a simple yes  to yourself. Light that candle, open the...

Hi beauty, let’s talk about something near and dear to my heart: Soft Luxury, and Everyday Glamour.  You’ve probably heard the term...

Okay, beauties, grab your Prosecco (or whatever you fancy), I’m having lemon Moscato (Yes, it is as good as it sounds), and let’s...

Hey beautiful — let’s have a little hair talk, shall we? If you’ve ever shopped for human hair extensions (and let’s be real, who...